THE WOMAN FILLED WITH CREATIVE ENERGY...NOT THE WOMAN SATISFIED IN THE AL VEL LEGIS OF VENUS TO THE LETTER 'L'

http://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AXA0ue4vjqLGZGZrcmdmbmRfMzVnZzNtc2JoZA&hl=en

GOOGLE ESSAY DOC...FAILURE...

CNN G SPOT ARTICLE AT END OF THIS SECTION...PICTURE GETTY IMAGES

INTERIORITY...THE ENCHANTED AND ILLUSORY CASTLE...THE BARBICAN FORTRESS OF FAMILIAR AND SAFE IN DEFENSES OF IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT AND IMAGE MAKING VANITY GUARDING AGAINST THREATS OF LOSS OR EXPOSURE-SHAME

THE STRENGTH IN THE DEATH OF THE MAIDEN IN ENCOUNTER WITH THE FEARFUL UNKNOWN MALE...

THE SURRENDER OF THE BRIDE TO THE MALE AS 'BEAST-MONSTER' AS HOPE, RELEASE AND WILL IN OVERCOMING THE CONSTRUCTED SELF OF INERTIA...

FOR THE INNER DISTORTIONS OF FORTESSINGS BECOME THE PSYCHE TRAPPED IN THE APPETITES DOMINATED BY HUNGRY GHOSTS...

IT IS FEAR.TERROR.PATTERNED FORTRESSINGS IN A MODEL MIMESIS OF BEING AS EXPECTANCY...BEING IN DENIAL OF TRUTH OF URGENCY

IT IS A QUEST OF THE VULNERABILITY TO ACCESS SENSES THAT HAVE BEEN BLOCKED BY ISSUES, FATHER, MOTHER...TO SEEK THE FLAW THAT WILL ALLOW HER TO ERUPT AND OWN HER OWN INTERIORITY...

IT IS THE SURRENDER OF SELF TO REALNESS OUT OF DOCTRINES AND MIND SETS...

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'I CANNOT COUNT THE GOOD PEOPLE I KNOW WHO TO MY MIND WOULD BE EVEN BETTER IF THEY BENT THEIR SPIRITS TO THE STUDY OF THEIR OWN HUNGERS'...

 MFK FISHER...

IT IS 'AIR' IN CHI, BREATH, PRANA TO THE LETTER 'A' AND VENUS, BEAUTY, LOVE TO THE LETTER 'L' IN AL VEL LEGIS RHYTHMS OF THE BOOK OF THE LAW...
THE FORTRESSINGS AND DISTORTIONS OF THE SOCIO-RELIGIUS-ECONOMIC OF THE ACOUSTICAL GODDESS 'SENSAMORA' FOSTERS CONSUMPTION AND BUY THIS AND BECOME THIS AS 'IMAGE MAKING' AND POWER SEEKING TO COMPENSATE FOR 'LACK, NOT GOOD ENOUGH, POWERLESSNESS...IT IS IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT AS THE WOMAN FILLED WITH CREATIVE ENERGIES IS FORTRESSINGS AGAINST THE EXPOSURE, SHAME AND BEING POTENTIALLY 'CAUGHT IN THE ACT AGAIN...

IT IS THE WOMAN SATISFIED IN 'L' AS VENUS, BEAUTY AND PRESENCE WITHOUT MASKS, VEILS AND THE 'FORTRESS MEDIATIONS' OF EXCESSES OF CONTROL...IT IS ORIGINALITY OUT OF THE SHADOWS...THE HEART OUT OF THE DARKNESS...THE 'AS IS' OUT OF THE IMITATIONS AND STRATEGIES OF MANIPULATIVENESS...THE MEANS OF 'FALSE IDOL' DREAM DRIFTINGS AND PEER RINGS OF GOSSIP, PSYCHE PAN-NICK AND THE WAYS OF THE EROSTOCRACY OF 'CRAZE AND CRAVE'...

TO KNOW IS TO SENSE THE AFFECTS OF THE WINDS AS IF ONE WERE A 'KITE' YET KNOW THE TRUTH OF URGENCY IN THE FORCE AND SEDUCTIVENESS...TO TEMPER DRIVES OF 'FELT' AS ONE KNOWS THE WORLD ONLY AS MUCH AS ONE KNOWS ONESELF...

IT IS VANITY FAIR BEYOND THE TYRANNY OF VANITY FEARS...,IT IS HARMONIZING HEART IN TEMPERAMENT BEYOND TRANCEROS AUTO EROTIC SELF ABSORPTION...IT IS ONLY 'AS ONE LETS GO OF THE AUTO EROTIC THAT ONE IS ABLE TO BE WITH SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX'-JULIA KRISTEVA

CNN 1.04.10

The G-spot has never been precisely identified as a concrete biological entity.STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Scientists are still arguing over what G-spot is, if it exists at all


New study found no genetic basis, but method may be flawed


G-spot is named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, who described it in 1950


Some women say they ejaculate when they have a G-spot orgasm


(CNN) -- Ladies (and gentlemen): Can you find the G-spot?






Women everywhere have read or heard that they may possess a secret pleasure zone inside their bodies that, if stimulated correctly, yields intense pleasure and even orgasm.






But this so-called G-spot has never been precisely identified as a concrete biological entity. Scientists are still arguing over what it is and whether it exists at all.






Researchers at King's College London in the United Kingdom have brought the elusive G-spot to the forefront with a study of more than 1,800 female twins. The study suggests that there is no genetic basis for the G-spot and that environmental or psychological factors may contribute to whether a woman believes that she has a G-spot. The new study is published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.






But the lead study author, clinical psychologist Andrea Burri, isn't sure that the question was asked in a way that accurately got the information the researchers were seeking, as reflected in the study's discussion section.






Her team did not physically examine the women for the presence of G-spots but instead gave participants a survey asking whether they believed that they had a "so called G-spot, a small area the size of a 20p coin on the front wall of your vagina that is sensitive to deep pressure?" (A 20p coin is about the size of an American nickel.)






They found that 56 percent of respondents answered "yes" and that there was no genetic correlation. But only about 30 percent said they were able to achieve orgasm during intercourse, which may indicate that women were confused by the G-spot question because stimulation of the G-spot is supposed to induce orgasm, she said.






The definition of G-spot in the study is too specific and doesn't take into account that some women perceive their G-spots as bigger or smaller, or higher or lower, said Debby Herbenick, research scientist at Indiana University and author of the book "Because It Feels Good."






"It's not so much that it's a thing that we can see, but it has been pretty widely accepted that many women find it pleasurable, if not orgasmic, to be stimulated on the front wall of the vagina," said Herbenick, who was not involved in the study.






If at the end of the day, someone's invented something and they feel pleasure from it, then I think that's great.






--Debby Herbenick, University of Indiana researcher






RELATED TOPICS


Sexuality


Psychology


Women's Issues


The study also found correlations with personality components in women who did report having G-spots: For instance, these women tended to be more extroverted, arousable and open to experience, which may indicate a psychological component to the G-spot, Burri said.






More research is necessary to make more conclusive statements about whether the G-spot has a physiological basis, experts say.






"I don't think that these are invented experiences at all," Herbenick said. "And if at the end of the day, someone's invented something and they feel pleasure from it, then I think that's great."






The G-spot has been so difficult to identify because it is more of a physiological change -- akin to swallowing or urinating -- than an anatomic structure such as a nipple, said Dr. Irwin Goldstein, director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in San Diego, California, who oversees the peer review process for the Journal of Sexual Medicine.






But a recent study that adds credence to the G-spot concept. French researchers Odile Buisson and Pierre Foldès did ultrasounds of a small number of women having intercourse with men. By looking at the changes in the vagina, the researchers found physiological evidence of the G-spot. This study is under review at the Journal of Sexual Medicine, Goldstein said.






The G-spot is named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, a gynecologist known for his research on female genitalia. He described this pleasure zone of the vagina in a 1950 paper.






The 1982 book "The G Spot: And Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality" made the term "G-spot" popular.






A small study by Italian researchers in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2008 found that women who were able to achieve vaginal orgasms had thicker tissue between the vagina and the urethra, where the G-spot is said to reside.






A minority of women say they ejaculate when they have a G-spot orgasm. Some sex researchers say this fluid comes from a gland that's near the G-spot area.






Men also have a G-spot of sorts, below the scrotum and above the anus, Goldstein said, although it has not gotten as much attention as the more mysterious female G-spot.






Experts agree that the idea of the G-spot has put pressure on both women and their male partners to find some kind of hidden treasure that leads to orgasm from the penis alone.






"Initially, it was a good concept, because who wouldn't like the idea of 'push a button and get the best orgasm ever?' " Burri said. But those women who can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse may feel inadequate, and knowing that the G-spot may not exist can take some pressure off.






Women should explore their bodies, find out what they like, and communicate that information to their partners, Herbenick said.






"Whether you call it your G-spot or the front wall of your vagina, or if you make up a silly name for it ... at the end of the day, it's what you like and how your body works," she said.

YOU TUBE VIDEO

EVIL O BARBIE BUTT ZONINGS AND FEAR BROW BEATEN STATES

GREAT NATURE IN GREAT CREATIVE SEXUALITY...

WHERE THERE IS FEAR… WE LOSE THE WAY OF OUR SPIRIT’. [MAHATMA GANDHI]

THE ‘REMOTE’ AND THE ‘UNSEEN’ ARE ALL AROUND AND THE ‘POLITICAL’ ORDERING OF THE ‘STATE’ IS BASED UPON THIS ‘TECHNOLOGY’. THE ‘MEDIUMS’ AND ‘SAVANTS’ KNOW THE ‘AFFECTS’ OF THE REMOTE ‘ZAP’ AND SENSE IT AS A ‘WAY’ TO BE MORE THAN ‘ORDINARY’. WE NEED ‘CLARITY’ OF ‘WHAT IS HAPPENING’ IN ‘REAL TIME’.‘SPIRITUAL REALISM’ MEANS FACING THE ‘DEEP POLITICS’ OF ‘MISDIRECTION’ AND ‘HIDDEN AGENDA’ANY EXPERIENCE OF ‘TRAUMA’ CHANGES HOW ONE MOVES IN THE WORLD… ‘TRAUMA’ IS A LONG TERM ‘ALTERED STATE’ WAY OF RELATING. IT IS A ‘TIME’ THAT CAUSES FORTRESS DEFENSIVENESS AND HOLDING ON TO MANY HABITS AND HEREDITARY PATTERNS. TO DEAL WITH ‘TRAUMA’ ONE BEGINS TO LIVE AS A ‘STRANGER’ WHO IS ‘OUT OF SYNC’ WITH THE OTHERS. IT IS LEARNING HOW TO FUNCTION IN A ‘NON-ORDINARY’ REALITY. IT IS ‘ORDINARY’ YET ONLY MORE SO. TRAUMAS BECOME ‘NORMAL’ AS ONE RESOLVES THE ‘AFFECTS’ THROUGH GENERATIONS OF REAL TIME EMOTIONS FROM DEEP WITHIN. ONE LEARNS BREATHING THROUGH THE ‘RECURRENT’ FEELINGS USING ‘ZAP’ DISRUPTIONS AND DISTURBANCES TO COME FORWARD IN SELF DEVELOPMENT.THE ‘ZAP’ ENCOUNTER OF ‘REMOTE LIGHTNING’ [‘ELECTROMAGNETIC RADIO WAVES’] IS DRAWN FROM THE SHAMANIC TRADITION OF ‘BEING HIT BY LIGHTNING’. IT IS A ‘CONSCIOUSNESS’ THAT IS IN THE ‘EVOLUTION’ OF LEARNING HOW TO ‘FULLY UTILIZE ONE’S CAPACITY’. IT IS A DRAMA OF ‘COURAGE’ AND SELF-ESTEEM. IT IS THE ‘WILL’ TO MOVE OUT OF THE ‘UNCONFIDENT’ WAYS AND INTO AN ASSERTION OF ONE’S SOUL. SOMETIMES IT MEANS ‘COMPROMISING’ AND ACCEPTING THE REALITY OF BEING ‘USED’ AS A ‘MEDIUM OR CHANNEL’ IN ORDER TO COMMUNICATE OR ASSIST THE ‘OTHER [S]’. IT IS A CONSTANT EXPANSION OF ONE’S CAPACITY AND CREATIVE RANGE.‘THE PATH OF POWER FOR THE SHAMAN IS A DIRECT ENGAGEMENT WITH THE FORCES OF THE SPIRIT…A DIRECT EXPERIENCE OF THE SPIRIT IN ITS OWN DOMAIN…IN INFINITY…TO COMMUNE WITH THE ENERGIES OF THE ‘LUMINOUS WORLD’…TO SHED ONE’S IDENTITY WITH ONE’S LIMITED SELF…TO EXPERIENCE A LIMITLESS ONENESS WITH THE CREATOR AND CREATION. ‘THE PAST AND FUTURE ARE STRIPPED AWAY AND ONLY THE HERE AND NOW EXISTS’.[ALBERT VILLOLDO IN SHAMAN, HEALER, SAGE]



IT IS AN EXPERIENCE THAT IS MYSTICAL AND GROUNDED AT THE SAME TIME. IT IS BEING SPIRITUAL AND CONNECTED TO THE ‘PATH OF THE HEART’ WAY AS ONE FULLY REALIZES THE JOURNEY INTO THE TRUE SELF.THE CONSCIOUSNESS OF ‘INNER NECESSITY’ IS THE AWAKENING OF A ‘WILL’ TO BECOME WHO ONE TRULY IS…NOT WHO ONE IS ‘EXPECTED TO BE’…IT IS A TUNING INTO A PATH OF THE HEART ‘ORIENTATION’ IN ORDER TO COME FORWARD OUT OF ‘KINWEBS’ AND THE CONSTRUCTIONS OF THE ‘INNER UNREAL’ OF DOING WHAT ONE HAD TO DO…‘INNER NECESSITY’ SEEKS HEALTHY AND FULLY HUMAN WAYS TO GROW AND REALIZE POTENCY AND POTENTIAL…’INNER NECESSITY’ RELEASES THE CONSTRAINTS OF THE ‘INNER UNREAL’ AND MOVES FORWARD TOWARD INTEGRITY OF BEING.

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BARBICAN SHAME FORTRESS OF BARBI CAN DAZE... THE WAY OF FEAR EATS THE SOUL... THE PLACE OF CONSUMINGS IN STRATEGIES OF POWER SEEKING EMULATIONS...

BUY THINGS AND BE SOMEONE ELSE...THE EMOTIONAL DESERT PSYCHE TERRAIN OF TERRORS AND CONSTANT ADAPTATIONS...

SEE http://neonemotionaldesert.blogspot.com/

[SEE THE  NEON EMOTIONAL DESERT PERFORMANCE VIDEO EXPRESSION OF 12 MINUTES AT END OF THAT BLOG]...

IT IS ENCRYPTION TO THWART, WARD AWAY AND FORTRESS AGAINST EXPOSURE IN SHAME-BEING CAUGHT IN THE ACT AGAIN...IT IS WALLING OUT IN THE CONTROL EXCESSES OF VANITY FEARS...IT IS THAT SEXUAL ORGASM MAY NOT BE WHAT IS DESIRED AS THE CONTROL AND DESIRE FOR IMAGINED IS GREATER IN THE NEED OF IMAGE MAKING SUSTENANCE...IT IS SPELL AND TRANCE IN HOMAGE TO THE DARKNESS OF THE EVIL QUEEN IN THE FRONTAL LOBES OF RATIONALIZATION AND CEREBRAL DEFINITIONS OF AN IDEA OF SELF OR A VERSION-AVERSION OR APPROACH AND AVOIDANCE FEAR OF LETTING GO OF THE FACADES OF IMITATIONS...

IT IS CONSCIOUSNESS IN 'EVERYTHING' IS A NARRATIVE AND THE FORTRESSINGS ONLY ALTER IN THE FORTIFYING OF WHAT AFFECTS THE WALLINGS OF FIRE IN VANITY FEARS...FOR THE VERSION OF BELIEF MEDIATES THE SHADOWS...THE NARRATIVE OF AN IDEA OF SELF THAT ENDURANCE REPRESENTS IS GREATER THAN THE EROS PRESENCE OF THAT IS WHAT IT IS FOR...

IT IS THE CONSTRAINTS OF THE DUPLICITY IN ENCOUNTERS WITH THE MOTHER'S LOVE THAT BECOMES THE EARLY HARM...THE POWER AND CONTROL GREATER THAN...THE FEAR OF THE NEEDED LOVE BEING TAKEN AWAY...THE SURRENDER OF REAL NEEDS INTO A DEAL WHERE 'NET SUM' OF SHAME ACCEPTANCE OR VEILING MASKINGS BECOMES MANIPULATIONS IN SELF DECEPTIONS, STRATEGIES OF FANTASY AND ILLUSION IMITATIONS OF INNER SPLITTINGS FROM TRUTH OF URGENCY...

IT IS FEAR EATS THE HEART AND BEING...THE EVIL IS IN THE PROJECTIONS OF 'WAYS' AND ACCEPTANCES' OF SEX WARS CONTROLS IN POWER SEEKING COMPENSATIONS THAT SERVE DESIRE FANTASY IN 'WANTING TO BE WANTED' NARRATIVES GREATER THAN INTIMACY PRESENCE WILL OF CONNECTIONS...

THE 'BARBI-CAN' IS THE FALSE IDOL OF SENSAMORA GODDESS OF ACOUSTICAL COMMERCIAL RESONANCE IN MEDIA INDOCTRINATION...IT IS LOSS AND NOT GOOD ENOUGH 'PSYCHICALLY DAMNED' '''''BEHIND''''' AN IMAGE MAKING OF THE EROSTOCRACY OF 'CRAZE AND CRAVE'...IT IS DREAM IN HOUDINI ESCAPISM TO BE A ROLE/PERFORMER AS THE REALNESS IS CASTRATION IN THE MEDIATION OF THE CURRENCIES OF IMPOSITIONS...IT IS THE DREAM GREATER THAN THE WILL OF TRUTH OF URGENCY...

COMPRESSION...MACHIAVELLI CLIZIA AND ADVERTISING

'FOR THE CLOSER A MAN[ OR A WOMAN ] IS TO HIS DESIRE THE MORE HE DESIRES IT AND SINCE HE CANNOT HAVE IT IT CAUSES HIM GREATER TORMENT'...STONE 'WALLINGS' OF THE INERTIA... COMPLIANCES WITH THE COMPRESSIONS OF POWER MEDIATIONS...IT IS WHO IS ABLE TO OVERTHROW THE SELF/PERSONALITY OF MEDIATION TO BECOME REALNESS IN PRESENCE TRUTH OF URGENCY...STOPPING TRAFFIC... VODKA LADY AT RIVER

THE STONE 'WALLINGS' OF DEFENSES, DEFIANCES, DENIALS AND DECEPTIONS OF SELF IN THE STRATEGIES OF CONTROL AS 'SUCCESSFUL ORGASM' MAY NOT BE WHAT IS DESIRED...

IT IS SELF DECEPTION IN AUTO EROTIC CRAZE AND CRAVE QUESTS OF POWER GREATER THAN LOVE...IT IS IMITATION GREATER THAN TRUE URGENCY...IT IS DEEP SENSES OF BEING EXPOSED WHERE SHAME OF BEING CAUGHT IN THE ACT AGAIN FORTRESSES...IT IS THE HYPERVIGILANCE OF MEDIATION AGAINST THREATS THAT WOULD DISPLAY REAL INSTEAD OF THE IMAGES OF IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT---FALSE CONSTRUCTIONS OF CARDS AND VEILINGS...

HEART IN THE COOL FIRE RARE AIR OF GOING DEEP IN THE SHADOWS AND TRUTH...

COMFORT IN THE SHADOWS OF THE FOLD... THE INNER PATHINGS OF AWAKENINGS, AROUSALS. SHUTTING DOWN, DENIALS AND EXCHANGES OF WANTING TO BE WANTED OR TRUTH OF URGENCY OF REALNESS OUT OF FANTASY DECEPTIONS...THE REFLECTIONS OF GOOD MOTHER AND BAD MOTHER...

BARBICAN...AN OUTWORK OF A FORTIFIED PLACE

BARBI CAN...BARBI'S CAN

THE FORTRESSED DEFENSES OF BARBICAN SHAME FORTRESS... IT IS THE IMPOSITIONING IN PSYCHE CONFORMANCE TO A MODEL...IT IS ANTI-HUMAN AS A LIMITATION OF NATURAL...IT IS A COMPRESSION INTO MEDIA SEXOMONEY DOGMA OF EXPECTANCY...IT IS FAD, FASHION AND ANAESTHESIA OF ADDICTIONS AND ILLNESSES AS HEALTH VITALITY IS LOST IN VANITY...

THERE IS A FORTRESSING 'ENCRYPTION' OF DEFENSES...BARBI BUILDING IN SHANGHAI

BARBI-CAN SHAME FORTRESS CASTLE OF PUZZLES

BITCH LUSTINESS S


GRIEF O ACCUMULATIONS


T D SEXUALITY B W


BRACINGS RAGES G E T SORROWS


A A E E E S FEARS E


Y T ANGERS R M


A M C DIRTY IMITATION


LONELINESS VANITY O C M C


U P D ROMANCE E O


M D E DARKNESS U SAFENESS


BITTERNESS E A R I T


I C T D F MOTHER I S R


DEADEN E I RESCUE A LOVE OS


G P N F N S DENIAL


T G I SINFULNESS I M


I I A I T P


INHIBITION N N V D Y C OBEY


N N E C REPRESSION U S


COCK SHAME A S N I


E H S B P I MASTURBATE


S Y A E R F I


T SECRETIONS ERECTILE COLD


T D F N N I


EROS POWERLESSNESS GOOEYNESS C


R N I E SUCK


PENETRATION GUILT RIVALRY


I A H I


P TRAUMAS N T


PENIS GREED


L U S


E CLITORIS TESTICLES


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THE BARBI-CAN SHAME FORTRESS CONTROLLINGS AND ‘CONTAINERINGS’ OF LIQUIDITY…FLOWS , BLOCKS, DAMS PADDINGS, PACKINGS, OBSTACLES AND DENIALS…AS IF A COMPUTER WITH ON AND OFF SWITCHES…NORMALCY IS UNIQUE TO THE ‘BELIEF’ BASIS OF THE ‘MANUFACTURED SELF’…THE ENDURANCE AND COPING-MEDIATION SELF OF PERSONALITY AND PSYCHE MANAGEMENT…THE DYNAMISM OF THE ‘BAOKA’…





IT IS THE JOURNEY INTO THE SELF THAT SEEKS FULLNESS OUT OF THE FORTRESSINGS OF ‘MEDIATIONS’…THE QUEST TO OWN ONE’S OWN SOUL OUT OF THE ‘SATISFACTION MODES OF ‘KA’ DUALITY ROLE SERVINGS’…THE JOURNEY OUT OF THE BARBICAN FORTRESS OF DISTORTIONS OF HUNGER AND WEARING SOMEONE ELSE’S JERSEY’…

REARING ZONES OF HIP WARS...WITHHELD OF GUT-BUTT DRAMAS..DENIALS AND REPRESSIONS ...THE BAD WIFE ESSAY

DORIS LESSING, THE GOLDEN NOTEBOOK 1962...

PAUL BEGAN TO RELY ON MANIPULATING HER EXTERNALLY, ON GIVING ELLA CLITORAL ORGASMS. VERY EXCITING.YET THERE WAS ALWAYS A PART OF HER THAT RESENTED IT.

BECAUSE SHE FELT THAT THE FACT HE WANTED TO, WAS AN EXPRESSION OF HIS INSTINCTIVE DESIRE NOT TO COMMIT HIMSELF TO HER...A VAGINAL ORGASM IS ALL EMOTION AND NOTHING ELSE, FELT AS EMOTION AND EXPRESSED IN SENSATIONS THAT ARE INDISTINGUIHABLE FROM EMOTION. THE VAGINAL ORGASM IS A DISSOLVING IN A VAGUE, DARK GENERALIZED SENSATION LIKE BEING SWIRLED IN A WARM WHIRLPOOL.

THERE ARE SEVERAL DIFFERENT SORTS OF CLITORAL ORGASMS AND THEY ARE MORE POWERFUL[A MALE WORD] THAN THE VAGINAL ORGASM.

THERE CAN BE A THOUSAND THRILLS, SENSATIONS ETC., BUT THERE IS ONLY ONE REAL FEMALE ORGASM AND THAT IS WHEN A MAN FROM HIS WHOLE NEED AND DESIRE TAKES A WOMAN AND WANTS ALL HER RESPONSE...
BUT WHEN SHE TOLD HIM SHE HAD NEVER EXPERIENCED WHAT SHE HAD INSISTED ON CALLING 'A REAL ORGASM' TO ANYTHING LIKE THE SAME DEPTH BEFORE HIM, HE INVOLUNTARILY FROWNED AND REMARKED...

 'DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE EMINENT PHYSIOLOGISTS WHO SAY WOMEN HAVE NO PHYSICAL BASIS FOR VAGINAL ORGASM?


'THEY DON'T KNOW MUCH, DO THEY'

THE ''''SCRIMMAGE OF APPETITE

 IS EVERYWHERE'''''- DELMORE SCHWARTZ

THE

 HIP WARS...

 SUCKING

 BREASTS   INTO

HIPS   

IN   DENIAL FORTRESSINGS

 

ENMESHED DRINKS AND BLINKS   

 IN VAGUS TEMPOS  

 OF BLOCKED

FOR VANITY

 AS FEAR EATS THE SOUL...

FOR ONE

 CANNOT REPAIR CONTROL

THE INNER CHILD

ONLY DREAMS IT IS AWAKE...

..THE HUNGRY GHOSTS RULE THE CASTLES OF ILLUSION.

A CHANGE IN DEPICTION OF 'MALE SEXUALITY' IN MEDIATIONS WITH WOMEN ASSERTIONS IN PAST GENERATION...

WEIGHT GAIN FOR WOMEN RESEARCH NYT 1.05.10

Study Says Women With Mate Get Heavier

Published: January 4, 2010


It is widely known that women tend to gain weight after giving birth, but now a large study has found evidence that even among childless women, those who live with a mate put on more pounds than those who live without one.


Overweight...The differences, the scientists found, were stark.

After adjusting for other variables, the 10-year weight gain for an average 140-pound woman was 20 pounds if she had a baby and a partner, 15 if she had a partner but no baby, and only 11 pounds if she was childless with no partner. The number of women with a baby but no partner was too small to draw statistically significant conclusions.


There is no reason to believe that having a partner causes metabolic changes, so the weight gain among childless women with partners was almost surely caused by altered behavior. Moreover, there was a steady weight gain among all women over the 10 years of the study.


This does not explain the still larger weight gain in women who became pregnant. The lead author, Annette J. Dobson, a professor of biostatistics at the University of Queensland in Australia, suggested that physiological changes might be at work.

“Women’s bodies may adjust to the increased weight associated with having a baby,” Dr. Dobson said. “There may be a metabolic adjustment that goes on when women are pregnant that is hard to reverse. This would be more consistent with our findings than any other explanation.”


The study covered more than 6,000 Australian women over a 10-year period ending in 2006.
At the start, the women ranged in age from 18 to 23. Each woman periodically completed a survey with more than 300 questions about weight and height, age, level of education, physical activity, smoking status, alcohol consumption, medications used and a wide range of other health and health care issues.


By the end of the study, published in the January issue of The American Journal of Preventive Medicine, more than half the women had college degrees, about three-quarters had partners and half had had at least one baby. Almost all of the weight gain happened with the first baby; subsequent births had little effect.


Also by the end of the study period, there were fewer smokers and risky drinkers than at the beginning, more women who exercised less and a larger proportion without paid employment.


But even after adjusting for all of these factors and more, the differences in weight gain among women with and without babies, and among women with and without partners, remained.
Despite the study’s limitations — weight was self-reported, for example, and the sample size diminished over time because people dropped out — other experts found the results valuable.


“It’s interesting and brings out some important points,” said Maureen A. Murtaugh, an associate professor of epidemiology at the University of Utah who has published widely on weight gain in women. Perhaps, she suggested, a more active social life may help explain why women with partners gain more weight.


“Think of going to a restaurant,” Dr. Murtaugh said. “They serve a 6-foot man the same amount as they serve me, even though I’m 5 feet 5 inches and 60 pounds lighter.”


The study included only women, but the researchers cited one earlier study that showed an increase in obesity among men who had children, adding further evidence that social and behavioral factors are part of the explanation.
Dr. Dobson said the finding of weight gain among all the women, with families or without, was troubling.
“This is a general health concern,” she said. “Getting married or moving in with a partner and having a baby are events that trigger even further weight gain. “From a prevention point of view, one can look at these as particular times when women need to be especially careful.”

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NOTES

'WHAT IS INCOMPLETE FROM THE PAST WE TEND TO RECREATE' -FREUD....
IT IS 'WANTING TO BE WANTED IN STRATEGIES OF DESIRE-CONTROL THAT IS POWER GREATER THAN LOVE...IT IS TENDENCY...NESTING...HOLDING AND ZONING'

WAITING IN WANTING...INERTIA OF PATTERN...LEVERAGING IN MEDIATION AND ENDURANCE COPING VS. THRIVE AND COMING FORTH IN VITALITY ...SPONTANEITY PLEASURE...

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THE BAD WIFE...

SHE KNEW WHAT SHE DID...SHE KNEW HE KNEW THAT SHE HAD NOT BEEN THERE WHEN SHE COULD HAVE...SHE KNEW SHE HAD GONE BEYOND UNAVAILABILITY, WITHDRAWAL, FLIGHT AND THE SAFENESS OF 'YIN'...THE 'YIN' SPACE OF CHARGED DISTANCING AND WATCHING...THE 'YIN' SPACE OF GREAT HUNGER IN 'WANTING TO BE WANTED' AND SOMEHOW OVERTHROWING THE ECHOES OF THE INNER GATE OF DEATH DEEP IN THE PERINEUM...THE DEADENED AND WITHHELD PLACE OF RAGE AGAINST THE BETRAYALS THAT HAD BEEN DONE TO HER AND THE BETRAYALS OF HER REALNESS SHE DID IN MEDIATIONS AND FILTRATIONS TO 'GET NEEDS MET'...

SHE KNEW WHAT SHE DID...




IN THE SHADOWS   ...THE WOMAN IN THE DARK ROOM  

 WAITED

 IN THE RHYTHMS OF DAYLIGHT AND USED 'WHATEVER' TO FOSTER ORBITS OF RELATIONS THAT PROVIDED 'INTENSITY-DENSITY' MEANS OF COUNTERING THE DEADNESS OF THE DEEP 'YIN'...

FOR IT WAS NOT THE 'STILLNESS' OF SPIRIT AND HEALTH BUT THE CONTROL OF RESONANCE AND RELATIONS...






IT WAS POWER GREATER THAN LOVE AS SHE STRUGGLED TO OVERCOME ROOT FEELINGS OF VIOLENCE AND BETRAYALS THAT TOLD HER SHE WOULD NEVER BE LOVED ENOUGH...SHE ACHED FOR THE LOVE YET INCREASINGLY DISCOVERED THE NECESSITY OF BUILDING NEW ILLUSIONS TO MEDIATE THE 'MYTHOLOGY' OF HER FAMILY HISTORY AND THE DESTRUCTIVENESS OF THEIR FORTRESSINGS MASKED IN 'BELIEF-FAITH' IDEOLOGY STRUCTURES...


SHE KNEW WHAT SHE DID...

SHE KNEW THE DIFFERENCES IN MANIPULATIVENESS, DISAPPOINTMENTS AND CONTROLS AS BEHAVIORS OF NOT BEING SEEN...NOT HAVING ANYONE MEET HER IN REALISM OF EMOTIONALITY...THE VERSION OF WHO SHE WANTED YOU TO SEE...THE IDEALIZED AS PORTRAYED IN THE IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT OF TIMES ENCOUNTERED AND THE GAP OF REALITY OF THE FULLNESS OF HER STRUGGLES TO BE LOVED AS IS...






THE CONTROL OF OUTCOMES WAS NOT POSSIBLE...






FOR SHE SAW HER WOUNDS AND LACK AND EXPRESSED THEM KNOWING THEIR RECURRENCE AND SOUGHT ACCEPANCE..TO STILL BE LOVED...






AND HE LOVED HER FOR WHO SHE IS YET HE KNEW HE WAS NOT AS SHE ENVISIONED...THE SHARED 'YIN' MAGNETIC FIELD SEXUALITY' AFFORDED OPPORTUNITY IN HEALINGS AND GROWTH YET IT WAS 'YANG' STRENGTH IN FULLNESS AS OPPOSITES THAT SEEMED UNATTAINABLE...FOR RHYTHMS OF YIN TO YIN IN COUNTERING THE 'DEEP DEADNESS OF THE BOTTOM' GATE OF DEATH WAS A SOURCE OF SOMEONE BEING THERE TO SHARE AND MOVE...A 'TEMPORARY CURE' FOR THE LONELINESS AND INCOMPLETED...






REALNESS WAS EVOLVING INTO ENCOUNTER...FOR HIS GROWTH THROUGH HIS DAMAGES MOVED IN YIN DEPTHS WITH A RARENESS TO BECOME THE YANG THAT FEW MEN ACHIEVE...FOR THE 'YANG' OF LIFE FORCE IS DIRECTION AND PROMETHIAN...IT IS ALIVENESS TO STEAM AND INSPIRE AGAINST THE YIN CURRENTS OF MOSTLY WATERS OF UNCONSCIOUSNESS...

IT IS WILL

TO ONENESS  

 IN CREATIVE INTEGRITY... 

HEART CENTERING IN KNOWING WHAT ONE HAS DONE...TO BREATHE THROUGH GUILT, SHAMES AND KINWEB OPPRESSIONS THAT COMPEL DECISIONS TO AVOID EXPOSURE... 

ACTIONS OF COURAGE BEYOND WEBBED MODES OF REACTIVITY AND THE DANCES OF 'ACCEPTABLE' VERSIONS OF THAT'S WHO SHE IS...






SO SHE INVESTS IN THE LOSSES AS CONSTRUCTIONS IN INERTIA...

SHE MOVES IN FAMILIARITY AND SEEKS TO WIN THE THEMES THIS TIME... 

TO ENDURE IN A DISTANCE AS THE VULNERABILITY FOR REAL KNOWLEDGE AND GROWTH IS NOT YIN BUT THE WILL OF YANG...EXPOSURE, STANDING ON ONE'S OWN...SPEAKING TRUTH TO THOSE WHO WOULD SUPPRESS AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF 'YIN' SILENCES AND NON CONFLICT/CO0NTRADICTION...

MAKING PEACE IN INNER DEADNESS CLOSE TO THE PERINEUM GATE OF DEATH...BEING IN THE HIDDEN AGENDA AS THE PLATEAU OF 'MASS-OCCUR' WAVES...FOR THE CREATIVE MOVES TO YANG OUT OF 'SILENCE IS DEATH'...COURAGE OF DAATH AND ASSERTIONS OF WILL...RIGHT TO ONE'S LIFE AS ONE'S LIFE...






IT IS GETTING OUT OF THE SELF-RECRIMINATIONS OF THE 'BAD WIFE' AND THE BLACK SHEEP INTO AN ASSERTION OF IDENTITY.........TRUTH OF URGENCY OUT OF FALSE ANGST MEDIATIONS AND OVERLOAD RELEASES...


AWARENESS OF POWER GREATER THAN LOVE IN CONTROLLINGS OF EXTREME YIN OR EXTREME YANG...

BARBI-CAN SHAME AND WRESTLER SOAP MADNESS-STONES OF TONES IN WICKS AND SPARKLES...WIRES AND ECHOES...

IT IS ENTERTAINMENT IN A SLOW CORROSION OF SPIRIT...A POISON IN THE COURT EATING AWAY AT FIBROUS INNER SENSES...THE TOXICITY OF MONEY EROSTOCRACY AND INJUSTICE...MADNESS IN THE BARBI-CAN SHAME FORTRESSINGS OF IMPOSITION AND ENDURANCES...ILLUSION IN MODELS OF IMITATION COMPELLING CONSUMPTIONS OF EMULATION OR EXTERNALIZATION FOR HEART IS NOT PRESENT IN IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT...WILLFULNESS AND CONTROL REACTIVITY IS IN DREAMS ECHO DEEPLY AND POWER QUESTS GREATER THAN LOVE...THE LIP SERVICE FALSENESS OF 'WANTING TO BE WANTED' GREATER THAN TRUTH OF URGENCY...GREATER THAN THE SELF LOVE NEEDED TO BREAK THROUGH THE SHAME FORTRESSINGS OF MEDIATION MODES OF DEFINITION...At Barbie’s Mansion, It’s Time for Yoga With Pro Wrestlers

AFTER all these years of marketing Barbie in all her glorious incarnations — and outfits — Mattel is about to gear up to sell a new plastic collectible figure with a different, but still distinctive, look: a 7-foot-tall wrestler named the Big Show.
Pro wrestling’s true appeal lies with its soap opera elements, says W.W.E.’s chairman, Vince McMahon.

Mattel, the world’s largest toy manufacturer, is scheduled to announce on Monday a deal to become the new toy partner of World Wrestling Entertainment, the corporate titan of the pro wrestling world and producer of two of the most successful — and longest-running — franchises in television, “Smackdown” and “Raw.”

Starting this week, a new line of toys derived from W.W.E. characters will hit store shelves, a result of two years of development by Mattel. The toys will include action figures of W.W.E. stars like the Big Show and his polar opposite Rey Mysterio (about a foot and a half shorter), as well as roped rings for the figures to wrestle in and toy-size championship belts with special lighting. The deal also includes significant advertising commitments from Mattel in the W.W.E. shows.

If it seems incongruous that a company that depends on selling to children would want to nestle in with wrestling, you may not have been paying close attention to how effectively W.W.E. — which knows a thing or two about many incarnations itself — has reinvented its particular form of entertainment.



But the people at Mattel have been paying attention. Tim Kilpin, the general manager of Mattel Brands, said in a telephone interview, “We’ve always followed the sports and entertainment at W.W.E., and we’ve always admired what they do.”
What they do is put on wrestling shows that are much more about characters and plotlines than they are about matches, wins and pins. But what is new at W.W.E. in recent years is the tone that content has taken. Wrestling, which has been through a rock music phase and an adult-oriented phase, has gone full-blown PG.
“We were always PG on our ‘Smackdown’ show,” said Vince McMahon, the chairman of W.W.E. But the “Raw” show was quietly shifted to meet PG content standards starting about a year ago.
“We’re about the only variety show on television,” Mr. McMahon said, pointing to the roster of guest starts on his shows this season, which has included Jeremy Piven of “Entourage”; the Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback, Ben Roethlisberger; and the Rev. Al Sharpton. “We sell fun,” Mr. McMahon said.

WE SELL FUN

The fun does involve huge men like the Big Show hurling other huge men around the ring — and sometimes outside of it. But the true appeal, Mr. McMahon said, comes down to “the soap opera elements, the entertainment elements.”



As Mr. McMahon put it, “It’s still about protagonists and antagonists” — or, in the parlance of the genre, “baby faces” and “heels.” (And Mr. McMahon has been both types in the course of acting as his own long-running character, “Mr. McMahon,” on the shows). But it is now done with more twinkle than liniment in the eye.



And it is all in high definition. “HD has made our programs really popular,” Mr. McMahon said.



“It’s about the only 52-week, live, DVR-proof show going,” said Chris McCumber, the executive vice president of marketing for the company’s cable partner, USA Network. The “Raw” show is new every week of the year, and because it is live with sports elements, Mr. McCumber suggested, it is less likely to be recorded on a digital video recorder and played back later — with the commercials skipped.



He said that “Raw” was up 17 percent in total viewers on USA over the last year.



For Mattel, one of the most significant statistics was growth among viewers in the market that it is intensely interested in: children. About 22 percent of the W.W.E. audience is younger than 18, and while Mr. McMahon emphasized that there had been significant growth in the shows among women viewers, what most attracted Mattel was the steady appeal to “the audience we’re trying to reach,” as Mr. Kilpin put it.



As in: boys. Mattel sells toys like Hot Wheels to them and is looking for other products that will appeal to that group.



“We do a lot of research to find out what boys are excited about,” Mr. Kilpin said. Wrestling presented an opportunity to reach “a certain type of boy we didn’t have in our portfolio.” That is a boy, he said, “who loves authentic, athletic performers and is oriented toward entertainment.”



Much work went into devising a new technique that Mr. Kilpin labeled “flex force,” which will allow the new action figures to do moves used by the wrestlers on TV. The company is also paying attention to what Mr. Kilpin calls “the collector market,” which consists of older wrestling fans who collect the figures.



As an added appeal to them, he said, Mattel is making the figures “in a scale that is accurate.” Thus the Big Show’s action figure will tower over Rey Mysterio’s.



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For W.W.E., the deal with Mattel — it is being called a multiyear agreement with no length or dollar amount specified — is another statement of the enduring appeal of wrestling programming. Donna Goldsmith, the chief operating officer of W.W.E., said the company sought proposals from toy companies in 2007, anticipating the conclusion of its deal with Jakks Pacific at the end of 2009.



“Every significant toy company made a bid,” Ms. Goldsmith said. “Mattel just blew us away.” She added, “Mattel just gets us.”



And why not? Wrestling, according to Mr. McMahon anyway, has exactly the right appeal for the home of Barbie. “It’s Americana, basically,” he said.